How to attract a foreign girl being on vacation

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You and your friends are on your summer vacation. Except from daytime leisure and maybe some sport acitivities you want to spend unforgettable summer nights in endless parties and, of course, to get acquainted to foreign girls, don’t you?

In line with the the spirit of summer, don’t worry about anything, don’t bother to learn the local language and to integrate in a foreign culture. The less you  know, the better.

Remember this: if a girl wants someone who knows  her language or is familiar with her culture, she will look for a local guy.

Your not knowing her lanugage and her culture is exactly what is exotic, interesting and different to her. Having fun with your friends and not focusing on the seduction matter will indeed help you. Such attitudes attract girls because they love to have fun, dance, party, and talk to guys.

The guys who are trying very hard to integrate into the local culture may be perceived as weak. So, be respectful and genuinely interested but relatively ignorant, or better, not too knowledgeable and, of course and above all, be yourself.

If you know a word or two in her language don’t hesitate to use it, it will give her the impression that you are interested in both her and her culture, no one likes a person that has no interest whatsoever.

How do you actually get your foreign girl?

The rule here is: you have to lead towards intimacy!

One thing is clear; both of you can’t get to know each other becaue of the language barrier; you surely don’t want to spend all night trying to understand her od getting to know her language surrounded by loud music and drinks and your friends.  You both want to have good time, dancing laughing, seducting each other. So, be confident; if she makes an eye contact and looks often at you with interest and smiles at you, and you feel that there is chemistry between you, you really don’t need words or to bother because you don’t know her language or the local norms. She likes you for being different and for being a tourist. Women of foreign countries respond great to foreigners.

Be friendly and warm and focus on non-verbal communication and the physical aspects of that relationship. It’s all about physical attraction and the first impression that you leave, so you should make an impression of a strong, confident person.

Last but not least, you don’t need to know foreign language or the girl’s cultural background to understand that a certain girl ins’t interested in you: refusal of communication, silence, nonverbal cues such as avoiding the eye contact, turning the back on someone while that person is talking, or sarcasm and even offensive remarks are nonverbal and universal signs of rejection.

So, as you can see, the well known truth behind the Sex and Travel Theory which says that a woman is more likely to have an affair in a foreign country than at home and that, correspondingly, a man is less likely to have an affair in a foreign country than at home, can easily be disproved if you follow these very simple rules described above.